Let's start by talking about Gods most prominent Leaders. David, a King, lusted after another man"s wife, and ultimately had him killed. Yet he was "a man after God's own heart". Solomon was the wisest King amongst all Kings and yet he was in love with making love. Women were the cause of his downfall, he accepted their "false gods", even helped build them. He wasn't as strong in his beliefs as his Father David and yet his WISDOM was above the rest. Paul a crusader of the Torah (Old Testament), becomes a killer of "Christians", and anyone calling the name Jesus he murdered. However while on the road to Damascus, Paul encountered Jesus. Jesus asked, "SAUL, WHY ARE YOU PERSECUTING ME"? Saul, whose name was changed to Paul, became the writer of most of the New Testament (a warrior for Jesus Christ). My point family, one should never judge a book by its cover. Take a look inside (the scriptures) so you can understand the grace and character of God. Now, there are fruits that a Christian should bare, and there are instructions with holding someone accoutable to those fruits. How do you know unless you STUDY THE SCRIPTURES AND GET A FULL UNDERSTANDING of how Yeshua deals with his folks.
Much love family, be blessed.